Let's talk about sexual problems with the sexologist in Cartagena Dra. Mauren Castilla
Sexology
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How can I improve lack of sexual desire?
There are many strategies and techniques that can help with the management of this sexual health difficulty, which is one of the most frequent associated with the female gender:
- Stimulate sexual fantasies
- Visualize erotic scenes
- Read erotic literature
- Listen or dance to suggestive music
Inquiring about the causes of lack of desire, hormonal problems must be ruled out and once these disorders are resolved, it will be possible to find that lost desire again. Just then, under the care of your sexologist, you will feel pleasure again.
Is it something normal that sometimes I don't feel sexual desire towards my partner?
Yes, passion can be lost between couples over the years and if you live within a routine. It is at this time that we must use multiple tools available like advice on Sexual Health to recover the attraction, which we offer according to the preferences of each one and, of course, respecting autonomy and maintaining the state of comfort and pleasure of the relationship. Mutual body massages, sending suggestive messages, provocative calls, or evoking pleasant scenes experienced as a couple can also help.
Is it normal for my partner to not get an erection?
It is usually circumstantial that men sometimes have a "trigger" which is the loss of an erection during a coital relationship. And yes, it is normal.
Why does it hurt when I have sex?
The main reason may be the lack of lubrication. However, vaginal infections, old tears, or vaginismus must be ruled out. In our consultation we will help you discover what that situation is and we will be pleased when you enjoy your sexual encounters again.
What to do if my partner suffers from erectile dysfunction?
Communication and understanding is the best advice I can give you. The sexual partner is the person most interested in this dysfunction to improve. An important recommendation is a full medical evaluation, since erectile dysfunction is a marker of cardiovascular risk, that is, it warns us before an episode of coronary health (heart attack, angina pectoris) of the person who suffers from it. It is not just about buying what they recommend in pharmacies.
How to improve sexual relations with my partner?
There are many strategies to enrich that experience. Going to a consultation with a sexologist will help you expand that range of possibilities. We will be happy to guide and deploy all that erotic potential that each one has. Go with your partner to this appointment and remember that it can also be virtual by Teleconsultation.
At what age is it normal for the penis to get an erection?
Since pregnancy there is evidence of fetal erections. This is due to a reflex and as a nervous response, it appears as a response to a stimulus. So the erections in babies, in childhood, and adolescence are normal and tell us about an adequate nervous, circulatory, and sensitive network over the genital organs.
Is it normal for the penis to get soft often when having sex?
No, it would be expected that upon adequate stimulation and with sufficient congestion of the pelvic and penile vasculature (blood vessels), a penis should remain erect until the moment of ejaculation. Frequent loss of erection should be studied. We are ready to help you.
Do all women lubricate when having sex?
If there has been adequate previous excitement, it would be expected as normal to the erotic, tactile stimulation, or with intercourse. However, age, blockages, or mood disorders can cause a lack of lubrication. Using non-oily gel and water-based, acidic or neutral pH lubricants can help if the problem persists and if the lubrication does not recover, you should consult your physician to help you find the problem.